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By Carey Thompson
Founding Attorney

Probate is a legal process that involves authenticating a deceased person’s will and distributing their assets according to the will’s instructions or state laws if there is no valid will. Understanding probate is essential when it comes to reducing and avoiding family conflicts throughout the probate process.

During probate, the personal representative of the deceased’s estate must identify and inventory the deceased’s assets, appraise those assets, and pay off final debts and taxes. Afterward, the personal representative can distribute the deceased’s remaining assets as the will or law directs.

As the probate process unfolds, emotions can run high, and differing opinions can emerge on how to divide assets. Disagreements often arise over will interpretation, property valuation, and fair asset distribution. Without clear guidance from the deceased or their estate plan, loved ones can find themselves in nasty disputes that lead to lasting rifts.

As you plan your estate, you can reduce the likelihood of family disputes and conflicts by:

Drafting a Clear, Legally Binding Will

A clear, legally binding will can go a long way toward preventing family conflicts during probate. This document outlines how to distribute your assets after you die. An effective will must meet certain legal standards, including being signed and witnessed correctly. A clear will spells out your wishes precisely, leaving no room for interpretation or disputes among family members. When you take the time to create a solid will, you ensure that your assets go exactly where you want them to. This reduces the chances of family disagreements and makes the probate process smoother for everyone involved.

Creating a Comprehensive Estate Plan

Effective estate planning goes beyond just creating a will. Depending on your situation, a comprehensive estate plan might include setting up trusts, naming beneficiaries for your bank accounts and life insurance, and deciding on joint ownership for certain assets. Sometimes, these steps can allow your heirs to avoid the probate process altogether. Effective estate planning reduces the chances of family conflicts by clearly outlining how you want to distribute your assets, making the process more transparent and straightforward for your loved ones.

Communicating with Family Members

Communicating clearly with your family members is an excellent way to prevent conflicts during probate. Talk openly about your estate plan and how you intend to distribute your assets. This allows you to set expectations and avoid surprises that might lead to disagreements later on. When everyone knows what to expect, they are more likely to accept your decisions. You might even consider involving your family in the planning process. This enables you to address any concerns early on and ensure that your final wishes are clear to everyone involved, making the probate process smoother and more peaceful.

Choosing the Right Executor or Trustee

Choosing suitable executors or trustees can significantly reduce family conflicts during probate. You should select someone trustworthy and capable of handling the responsibility and pressure of managing your estate. This person should be able to make fair decisions and communicate effectively with all family members. Avoid picking someone who might cause or escalate conflicts. Selecting a neutral third party, like a trusted family friend or a professional, can effectively prevent disputes among relatives.

Getting Professional Legal Assistance

A knowledgeable attorney can suggest the ideal estate planning tools for your situation and help you avoid common pitfalls that might lead to misunderstandings or conflicts among your heirs. They can also prepare and review your estate planning documents to ensure every detail aligns with current laws and your wishes. Moreover, if disputes arise, having a lawyer who is already familiar with your estate plan can expedite resolutions and maintain harmony among your loved ones.

Contact an Experienced Probate and Estate Planning Lawyer Now

Looking to protect your family’s future and prevent disputes during probate? Contact the Law Office of Carey Thompson P.C. today for an initial consultation session and take the first step toward peace of mind for you and your loved ones.

About the Author
Carey Thompson has been practicing Social Security Disability Law Since 2008 after he graduated from Texas Wesleyan School of Law, now known as Texas A&M school of Law in Fort Worth, TX.  While at Texas Wesleyan he served on Law Review.  Prior to going to Law School, Mr. Thompson was a High School Band Director for four years using his degree in Music Education from Michigan State University.  Prior to Attending Michigan State, he attended Aledo Schools from Kindergarten to graduate.  Mr.Thompson feels strongly about serving the people of Tarrant County.